I think we are mixing a lot of things up here.... one must first feel comfortable designing a structure by hand, then rely on software. I will carry on with my previous numbering so you see the whole picture.
4. You must ask yourself, could I design a flat slab concrete structure by hand by determining moment and shear coefficients for continuous slab case for vertical gravity loading. This will give you both shear and moment value. Each CODE has rules for splitting the slab into "column strips" and slab strips" to determine width of slab for each hand calc. Decide which code you are going to use and follow its "design rules" for "flat slabs" / "flat plates".
5. With flat slab structure (no down stand beams) you will always require shear reinforcement in successive perimeters in the slab around the column. The exception would be if your column was say very large in plan size, or you thicken the slab around the column. Again, follow code approach, you should be able to do quick check by hand!
6. Next, how is the lateral stability of the structure achieved - shear walls or lift shaft? This is key as all lateral loads will go to these vertical elements via the floor slab diaphragm, limiting lateral load moments on the column at junction with slab. In earthquake regions i would plan lateral stability system first!
7. PT slabs require specialist PT tendons and grouts, quality control etc. They are often used to "thin" the slab section. They are expensive and require specialist installation. If you have all that (not sure if its economical for two storey building slab, unless it’s very heavily loaded, and has large plan area) then I would now even pursue this option.
8. Instead of PT slab, I would consider down stand beams to cut down slab span. There are various slab types which will span 9m (30'), or a coffered slab (designed same way as flat slab).
9. For your analysis, do not put in the 750mm long cantilevers, and design slab shear around the column.
10. Get the code, then the code handbook, then design. ETABS it seems to me have done a very good selling job in PK!
Design is in three steps: Crawling (college and uni studies), then walking (understand all structural concepts and design concepts by hand) and then running (rely on software only when you can judge if the output is in the "correct ballpark", by looking at the results!
a. Will span say 7-8m (24'), approx 300mm thick,no beams
b. Will span 10m (30'), 600 o/all thick, beams within depth
Or a (c) Traditional beam and slab system will suffice.
Or (d) if you local expertise available, then use PT slabs (the tendons need to be protected during building life from any damage, say someone drilling a hole into the tendon during building life, and also special techniques are required to demolish PT buildings.